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This has been a Christmas like no other. In fact, I can say the same for this entire year -Two thousand and twenty two. However, the year hasn’t been a wash, through the hardships of life, we have grown and furthered our learning of God’s love. The ending of this year has a glimmer of hope, with some news of Murphy’s scan last week.
Indulge me for a moment; let me recount the last few days, as there has been much excitement.
Last week we needed to delay some scans because Murphy spiked a temperature. As per protocol, this lead Nat and Murphy to stay overnight and have a platelet transfusion. Murphy’s bloods came back with a positive culture, which meant there was an infection that needed to be urgently treated. Due to Chemo destroying all of the good cells (soldiers, as murphy calls them) to battle out the infection on their own, the doctors come with a deployment of new troops, by way of antibiotics. Up to this point in Murphy’s treatment, he has had a fever with each Chemo cycle, but his bloods have never produced positive cultures (meaning there hasn’t been an infection). Therefore, last week was a new ‘first’ for us all. In true Nowak fashion, Murphy left it until the WEEK BEFORE CHRISTMAS to give us something new to navigate.
Nat and Murphy started their next hospital stay Wednesday last week. Instantly we were deeply saddened with the thought of spending Christmas in hospital. The mind is an amazing thing, and I fought of mental images of a split Christmas morning where I had to navigate the morning with Calista, Hugo and Ted, while Nat woke up with Murphy in the lonely hospital room. My heart sunk, as I thought through the new reality of how we are constantly at the mercy of this wretched disease. But we prayed each morning and kept presenting our requests before the Lord. My simple prayer last week was, “Lord, this is insignificant, but can you please bring Murphy home for Christmas”.
With news, on Thursday afternoon, that we were more than likely to end up in hospital for Christmas, Nat switched into elf mode! After a trip to the nearby Rundle Mall, Nat bought a few supplies to turn the plain hospital room into a Christmas cave, “Murphy’s magic Cave.” A wonderful reminder that through the hard times, you can always choose how your personal outlook is. Nat was laden with two oversized shopping bags FULL of wrapping paper and decorations. The shop attendant at Kmart felt the need to give Nat some extra cheer by telling her she could have the display tree out front, with the decorations still attached! After a slow walk back to Murphy’s room, and a few hours of having fun with some elf friends, the cave was complete! Check out the photos!
Friday was a special day for Murphy, and all of us! He woke in his Christmas cave, and had the joy shared with the entire oncology ward, as word spread about the cave! With the morning rounds, the doctors smiled as they entered the tinsel filled room. The infection had now become susceptible to the antibiotics and the right treatment was acting well. These new antibiotic troops did their job well, and his fevers were now well under control, and the bloodwork showed some promising signs of improvement. But the most pleasing result is this:
The results of the one scan showed SIGNIFICANT reductions of the cancer! Praise God! Yes, that’s right, the doctor used the word SIGNIFICANT. With great joy, smiles, relief and tears, Nat and I looked at each other in pure elation. The oncologist explained why he made such a bold statement. The primary tumour has reduced in size, as well as the other substantial tumours in the liver are NOT VISABLE on the scan. From the multiple tumours that were found in the Liver on the scan in September, only one remains! Cancer has disappeared from this site in Murphy’s body, meaning a really positive and miraculous result to the induction phase of Murphy’s treatment.
Your prayers are powerful, and they’re working! This is a sign of your great faith, thank you!
This scan below is proof. On the right is the September scan, showing the main tumour at 59mm x 43mm, and the left scan is from last week, 24mm x 31mm. In a week where we have had nurses tell us that 5 years ago this type of cancer had next to no cure, we get to look at a scan showing us a shrinking tumour.
It was a Christmas to remember! With all of this good news, we couldn’t be too sad about spending Christmas in hospital. However, God had better plans. He heard that small prayer still of us wanting our boy home, and that’s what then happened. The hospital team worked hard to provide a solution which allowed Murphy to spend Christmas Eve, as well as Christmas morning at home! This joy has been good medicine for Murphy!
Thank you for your support. Praise God that He is in control.
The week ahead has another round of chemo for Murphy, please keep praying that the cancer continues to shrink, and that Murphy’s body doesn’t get affected as badly this time around with round 5 of chemo. The make-up of drugs used this round is the same as round 3, which saw Murphy spend many extra nights in hospital with sickness.